Thursday, July 19, 2007

Fear - The Dream Killer
by Joseph Demasi

Most people say that FEAR is the False Expectations Appearing Real. Our mind is the most powerful computer on the planet. God has created what no man has been able to match. It has the ability to dictate our actions. What I mean by that is what the mind creates seems so real to us. Fear is one thing that we allow to dictate out actions. Most people fail to move forward because of the fear they have about what may happen. It could be something they experienced in the past or something that someone else experienced. We sabatoge ourselves by anticipating what may go wrong before we even take any action. We have all heard the following: "whether you think you can or you think you can't, you are right!"

What are people afraid of? Some are afraid of failure. They are so afraid of failing that they do not take any action. They spend their time researching every opportunity, looking at and examining every compenstion plan, all the products and all the ingredients. Looking for something that will prevent them from being successful. Now, I admit that you do need to do your due diligence and make sure that the company and products as well as your business partners are the right fit for you. If you do not believe in the product and cannot be proud of the company you will not be successful. That, of course, is normal research and is neccessary for your belief in the system and company. Some people will be over analyzing everything to the point that they will not take any action. They always find something that they do not like, something that does not "work" for them. The bottom line is that they are afraid that they will not succeed. So instead of moving forward, they allow the FEAR to paralyze them into taking no action.

This is the fact of generating money from home: there are many good companies with great products- and people are making good money working those programs. If they can do it, so can you. Do not allow FEAR to steal your dreams. That is what is at stake here. There is a reason that you are trying to make money online. maybe you are in debt, hate your job or want something more out of life. What we must remember is that each of us has the power to control our thoughts. It is never easy, but if you want to be successful it is something that you must do. The one way to control fear is by believing in yourself. Belief will conquer fear, every time!

Remember that fear is a false expectation appearing real. It has not happened yet and we are obsessed with it. Fear will hold you back in life and will prevent you from realizing your dreams. Next time you have a Fear about not being able to do something, replace that thought with an "I can do" whatever it is that you feel you cannot do. Delete the fear and replace it. The most successful people in business and in life have fear, they have learned to control it and continue to move forward.

"If you don't make mistakes, you aren't really trying"
--Coleman Hawkings

"It is not the critic that counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, and comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement. And at worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat."
--President Theodore Roosevelt

I love those 2 quotes because they let me know where the focus should be. You will never get where you want to go until you start moving. Success will not come to you, you must go and get it.

Have a Great Day!

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